Published Aug 5, 2020

THERAPIST SHARES The 4 Step Process For CURING LONELINESS & Finding HAPPINESS| Kati Morton & Lewis H

Clinical psychologist Kati Morton joins Lewis Howes to discuss a four-step process for curing loneliness and finding happiness, uncovering the psychological roots, practical strategies for self-discovery, and the healing impact of addressing trauma and fostering authentic connections.
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  • Signs

    , a clinical psychologist, outlines the key signs of depression, emphasizing the loss of interest in activities once enjoyed, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, and difficulty concentrating. She explains that depression is akin to catching a cold, highlighting its nature as a mental illness rather than a choice 1 2. Kati also discusses the genetic predisposition to depression, noting that family history can increase one's risk. She advocates for "opposite action," a therapeutic strategy to counteract depressive tendencies by engaging in positive activities 2.

    A shower can change your life.

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    adds that simple actions like getting sunlight and avoiding sugar can significantly impact mood and well-being 2.

       

    Thoughts

    The role of thoughts in mental health is crucial, as explains the dangers of toxic positivity, where ignoring negative emotions can hinder healing. She stresses the importance of acknowledging all feelings, both good and bad, to move forward effectively 3. Kati advises taking action to regain control when feeling overwhelmed, suggesting simple steps like organizing one's space or engaging in physical activities 4.

    It's about allowing yourself to feel it, whatever that is.

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    supports this by highlighting the need for balance between positivity and acknowledging life's challenges 3.

       

    Gender

    and discuss the emotional intelligence gap between genders, noting societal norms that discourage men from expressing emotions. Kati points out that this lack of emotional expression can lead to pent-up feelings and stress-related health issues 5. She advocates for teaching emotional intelligence to boys, emphasizing the importance of open communication about feelings from a young age 6.

    I think we're doing half of our population a disservice.

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    The conversation highlights the need for societal change to support mental health across genders, encouraging empathy and understanding 6.

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