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Published Jul 27, 2020

Psychologist EXPLAINS How Successful People Use LUCK TO WIN IN LIFE | Maira Konnikova & Lewis Howes

Maira Konnikova, a psychologist and author, delves into the psychological components of success by examining the role of luck versus skill, the virtues of embracing challenges, and the impact of emotional intelligence and social dynamics on decision-making.
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  • Embracing Challenges

    and explore the importance of choosing difficult paths to foster motivation and accountability. Maira explains that opting for the easy route often provides an escape, whereas challenging oneself leads to significant growth. Lewis shares his personal experience with Toastmasters, where facing his fear of public speaking in a high-pressure environment accelerated his development.

    I need to go here because they're going to elevate me quicker than the easier place.

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    Maira adds that even seasoned professionals like herself still experience nervousness before public speaking, highlighting the universal nature of these challenges 1 2.

       

    Overcoming Fears

    Maira discusses her journey of overcoming emotional triggers and biases, particularly in the male-dominated world of poker. She shares how working with a mental coach helped her identify and manage these triggers, leading to better decision-making. Lewis relates by describing his own process of facing fears, emphasizing the value of visualizing worst-case scenarios to reduce anxiety.

    I always play out the worst case scenario in my head every single time.

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    Both agree that acknowledging and addressing these fears is crucial for personal growth and success 3 4.

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