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Published Feb 16, 2022

This KEEPS 90% Of People From FINDING LOVE (Fix This Today!) | Marisa Peer & Lewis Howes

Marisa Peer joins Lewis Howes to discuss the critical barriers to finding love, such as overcoming rejection and embracing self-worth, while offering transformative strategies for building healthier relationships and fostering self-love through positive language and affirmations.
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  • Fear of Rejection

    explains that the fear of rejection is deeply ingrained in human psychology, stemming from ancient times when being cast out from a community could mean death. This fear persists today, affecting our interactions and self-perception. emphasizes that rejection can only occur if we allow it, suggesting that self-acceptance is key to overcoming this fear 1. She notes, "You can't reject me unless I agree with everything," highlighting the power of personal belief in shaping our experiences.

    You can't reject me unless I agree with everything.

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    adds that embracing fear until it dissipates is essential, as fear of rejection often hinders personal growth and connection 2.

       

    Internalizing Rejection

    Internalizing rejection often leads to destructive self-talk and beliefs, as shares from her experiences. She describes the pervasive lie of being unlovable, which can trigger a cascade of negative thoughts and behaviors in relationships 3. Peer

    If you want love, you have to believe you're worthy of it.

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    concurs, noting that recognizing one's worth and potential for connection is crucial for finding and maintaining love 4.

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