Published Jun 22, 2020

STOP SCREWING Yourself Over & DESTROY SELF DOUBT In SECONDS For SUCCESS | Mel Robbins & Lewis Howes

Mel Robbins joins Lewis Howes in a transformative discussion on overcoming self-doubt, the importance of embracing life's disruptive moments for growth, and the power of self-awareness and communication in reshaping relationships and building confidence.
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  • Self-Doubt

    Self-doubt is often the silent killer of dreams, as and discuss. Mel emphasizes that confidence is not a feeling but an action, a willingness to try despite doubts 1. She explains, "Confidence isn't the absence of self-doubt. It's being willing to try even though you doubt yourself."

    Confidence isn't the absence of self-doubt. It's being willing to try even though you doubt yourself.

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    Decisive actions, even small ones, can lead to significant changes in life, as Mel illustrates with her 5-second rule, which empowers individuals to make impactful decisions quickly 2.

       

    Authenticity

    Authenticity is a cornerstone of personal growth, as acknowledges Mel for her genuine approach to sharing her journey. He appreciates her openness about personal struggles and triumphs, which inspires others to embrace their true selves 3. Mel defines greatness as embodying authenticity and supporting others, a quality she attributes to Lewis 4.

    You embody greatness. I don't know anybody that cheers louder for other people than you.

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    This mutual admiration highlights the importance of being real and supportive in achieving greatness.

       

    Life Lessons

    Life experiences offer invaluable lessons, as Mel reflects on her talk show journey, which felt like a culmination of her life's work 5. She shares how overcoming feelings of inadequacy and embracing opportunities have shaped her path, despite persistent self-doubt 6.

    Knowing it, it allows me to catch it before it stops me from having an event or writing that next book or taking a risk.

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    Mel's journey underscores the significance of recognizing and seizing opportunities, even when they come unexpectedly, as they often lead to personal and professional growth 7.

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