Understanding Protectors

Gabby explores the concept of protectors in the context of trauma, highlighting how exiled parts of ourselves—often the young, traumatized inner child—struggle to process overwhelming feelings. She distinguishes between two types of protectors: managers and firefighters, focusing on managers who often manifest as anxiety and vigilance. By naming her own managers, she illustrates how these protective mechanisms can serve as a response to past trauma, ultimately influencing behavior and emotional well-being.