The Art of Investment
Lowering the activation energy for meeting someone can change the dynamics of attraction and courtship. When we invest effort—like making a phone call or planning dates—we naturally value the connection more. This investment creates a narrative and anticipation that enriches the experience, contrasting sharply with the instant gratification of modern dating apps. The journey of building a relationship is as important as the relationship itself.In this clip
From this podcast
The School of Greatness
How To Find Love & BUILD SEXUAL DESIRE In A Relationship| Matthew Hussey
Related Questions
I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way.
Do men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities? It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way. Is my thinking accurate?
How does attraction work psychologically in the context of the episode The Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey (Bonus Episode) and the clip Rethinking Attraction?