Control and Relationships
Cheating is often viewed as a personal betrayal, but it can also serve as a message about deeper issues in a relationship. The desire for control stems from a childhood need for security, leading to reactive behaviors in adulthood. Acknowledging and discussing past traumas can be a powerful step toward healing and understanding these patterns.In this clip
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"THIS IS WHY You Keep Having Relationship PROBLEMS!" | Dr. Shefali & Lewis Howes
Related Questions
If I have worked super hard on myself physically and mentally for years as a 21-year-old man, why does it sting much more when I open up about my life, values, and passions and still don't achieve a deeper connection? This question relates to the episodes This Is Why they STILL CHEAT In Relationships -IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK! | Lewis Howes, episode 245 ‒ Overcoming trauma, finding inner peace, & living a meaningful & fulfilling life | Lewis Howes, and the clip Healing Trauma.
If I have worked super hard on myself physically and mentally for years as a 21-year-old man, why does it sting much more when I open up about my life, values, and passions and still don't achieve a deeper connection? This question also relates to the episodes Manifest Abundance By ELIMINATING THIS From Your Relationship! | Steve Young & Lewis Howes, episode 245 ‒ Overcoming trauma, finding inner peace, & living a meaningful & fulfilling life | Lewis Howes, and the episode How To OVERCOME TRAUMA, Find Happiness & Live The Life YOU DESIRE | Lewis Howes & Peter Attia, as well as the clips Journey to Zen and Healing Through Vulnerability.
If I have worked super hard on myself physically and mentally for years as a 21-year-old man, why does it sting much more when I open up about my life, values, and passions and still don't achieve a deeper connection? This question relates to the episode This Is Why they STILL CHEAT In Relationships - IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK! | Lewis Howes and the clip Overcoming Childhood Trauma. It also relates to the episode 245 ‒ Overcoming trauma, finding inner peace, & living a meaningful & fulfilling life | Lewis Howes and the clip Healing Trauma.