STOP DOING These Things If You Want To FIND LOVE TODAY |DeVon Franklin & Lewis Howes

Honesty

Honesty is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, yet it is often the area where people struggle the most. DeVon Franklin explains that many individuals hide their true feelings out of fear of judgment or rejection, which can lead to a lack of genuine communication. He stresses the importance of being truthful with one's partner to foster a deeper connection and peace within the relationship 1. Franklin shares his personal journey of learning to communicate honestly, noting that it has been both cathartic and liberating for him 2.

It astonishes me how little real communication there is in a relationship, or even a marriage for that matter.

--- DeVon Franklin

By embracing honesty, couples can navigate their relationships more effectively and build a stronger foundation of trust.

   

Fears

Fear often prevents people from being open and honest in their relationships. DeVon Franklin discusses how societal and cultural conditioning can lead men to suppress their emotions, making it difficult for them to express love and vulnerability. He believes that addressing these deep-seated fears is crucial for emotional healing and building meaningful connections 3. Franklin also shares that he feels most loved when he experiences support and partnership in his relationship, and most hurt when he feels alone 4.

I believe we are naturally predisposed to love, but as men, we have to work against the cultural and societal conditioning in order to do that.

--- DeVon Franklin

Overcoming these fears can lead to a more fulfilling and peaceful life, both individually and within a relationship.