Lauryn Evarts and Michael Bosstick: Thriving in Marriage and Business with Lewis Howes

Intimacy

Lauryn Evarts and Michael Bosstick emphasize the importance of actively working on intimacy in a relationship. They share their experience with role-playing as a way to spice up their sex life, highlighting the need for creativity and effort to keep things exciting. Lauryn explains how they celebrated her birthday with a 'sexy stranger' role-play, where she dressed up as a Russian working girl, and Michael as a cowboy, to add fun and novelty to their relationship 1. Michael stresses that maintaining a vibrant sex life requires as much effort as other aspects of life, like health and business 1.

You have to put in the same amount of work into your sex life. Otherwise, it's going to die, and people are going to get bored.

--- Michael Bosstick

They also plan breaks to focus on their relationship, ensuring they have quality time together 2.

   

Sexual Health

Lauryn and Michael prioritize sexual health as a key component of their relationship, advocating for self-discovery and shared adventures. They discuss breaking stereotypes and the importance of understanding and empathy in relationships, as illustrated by their interview with a legal sex worker who defied typical expectations 3. Michael notes that many clients seek connection and understanding rather than just physical intimacy 3.

It's about not putting people in a box and hearing their story and seeing where they're coming from.

--- Lauryn Evarts

Lauryn also highlights the significance of intentionality in business and personal growth, suggesting that evolving beyond superficial appearances is crucial for long-term success 4.