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Published Feb 3, 2023

This Keeps 99% Of People SINGLE! - Fix This To Find LOVE... | Jay Shetty & Lewis Howes

Join Jay Shetty and Lewis Howes as they delve into the complexities of love and relationships, revealing how intentional effort, structured growth, and embracing discomfort are key to sustaining meaningful connections and overcoming the challenges that keep most people single.
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  • Stages of Love

    introduces the concept of love as a journey through four distinct stages: preparing, practicing, protecting, and perfecting. He emphasizes that these stages, inspired by the Vedas, offer a structured approach to understanding and nurturing love, rather than jumping from attraction to deep affection without the necessary groundwork 1. likens life to a "school of love," where each stage is a classroom teaching essential lessons for relationship success.

    Life is like a school of love...there's four different classrooms or there's four stages and phases that help you learn different lessons about how to love properly.

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    This methodical approach provides clarity and confidence, allowing individuals to assess their current position in the journey of love and what they need to learn next 1.

       

    Effort in Love

    challenges the common myth that love happens effortlessly and unexpectedly. He argues that this belief discourages people from actively seeking and nurturing love, as it implies that love requires no effort or intention 2. shares his personal experience, highlighting the importance of being open and ready for the right relationship, rather than passively waiting for it to happen 2.

    Finding love takes effort. Keeping love takes effort. Both of them take effort.

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    This perspective encourages individuals to work on themselves and their relationships, fostering a healthier and more intentional approach to love 3.

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