The Warning Signs That Love Is TOXIC! - How To Find REAL LOVE | Jay Shetty & Lewis Howes

Inspirational Figures

Jay Shetty emphasizes the importance of studying the lives of inspirational figures to better handle rejection. He shares how visualizing the setbacks of icons like Steve Jobs and Michael Jordan can provide valuable perspective and motivation. Lewis Howes adds that understanding these stories helps us realize our journeys are not so different from those of the greats 1.

Every time I get rejected, I think of Steve Jobs getting kicked out of his own company.

--- Jay Shetty

This approach encourages engaging with the pain of rejection to uncover underlying lessons and opportunities for growth.

   

Personal Setbacks

Jay recounts a personal setback when his podcast producer pulled out two weeks before launch, leaving him to manage everything on his own. He explains how this challenge ultimately boosted his confidence and ownership over his work. Lewis highlights the importance of self-reflection and focusing on personal growth rather than external validation 2.

I can either sit here and be really sad, or I can scrap together and figure it out.

--- Jay Shetty

This mindset shift from seeking validation to self-reliance is crucial for overcoming setbacks.

   

Feedback from Failure

Jay and Lewis discuss viewing failure as feedback rather than a personal indictment. Jay shares his experience of being rejected by 40 companies and how he learned not to take it personally. Lewis underscores that the best stories come from overcoming adversity, not from effortless success 3 4.

Failure is an event, not a person.

--- Jay Shetty

They agree that failure should be seen as an opportunity to improve and refine one's skills.